
I got to thinking the other day. I bet some people have no idea what life is like down here in Honduras. The question, "you have a Walmart and a Target down there right?" spurred this thought on. So I just thought I would share some of the ways life is different down here.
1. We
do not have a Walmart or a Target down here. We have a store owned by Walmart (it is also a grocery store) but it does not have the same products as Walmart. (Hence therefore the major "Walmart Run" as we affectiontely call it when we come to the states). Generally, if you need an item and live in the states, you go to the store and get it. You can pretty much count on finding it. Here however...it may take going to five or six stores (I'm not exaggerating) until you MIGHT find an item close enough to what you want. I have been on the search for quite some time now for good socks for Caleb that actually fit. The search continues by the way.
2.
Life takes LONGER. To pay bills, if you can't do it online you have to go wait in line at a bank (and the lines are long)or go to the place itself (e.g. cable/internet). How else does it take longer? No dishwashers. No icecube makers in the frig. Not drinkable tap water in the sink. We need to wash our fruits and vegetables in iodine water before eating them (we can't just rinse them off in the sink)
Traffic. This city is situated in the mountains and the streets can be just pure craziness. There are tons of cars now here...but no space to make roads wider etc.. It LITERALLY takes me THREE hours just to go down the mountain to get groceries and come home. Now we are only about 8 miles away from my favorite grocery store...but the traffic is like rush hour all the time. When you do get to that grocery store, that ONE item you needed for that recipe....is not there. It might normally be there, or occasionally be there, but not always. So you may need to go to three different stores around town to find the one item you need. (now that takes time! Especially with three small ones!)

(in this picture notice if you can, the line of cars behind me...that was the line we were in)
This picture is of a lovely moment...that lasted AN HOUR. I drove in the parking lot with all three kiddos and a dear friend who was visiting. Only to find out that we could not move. We could not park. We could do nothing. As soon as we drove in the parking lot of the grocery store we were at a standstill...nobody could get out of their spots, nobody could park, nobody could leave the parking lot. So there we sat for an HOUR (Hannah was crying too...she was hungry poor baby!) being able to do nothing. I had chosen to go there to get just one item, because I wanted my friend to see it since it was built after she moved. Irony of all ironies...an hour later...we leave the parking lot without ever entering the grocery store. We leave without the item, and we leave without her seeing the store. However, we did leave with a unique memory we shared together!
Roads. hm. They have craters in them. At least the one up the mountain does! Driving takes on a whole new meaning down here! You never know what you might find in the road....a pot hole...a cow...a pig...people walking as if they are not walking on a busy road....taxi drivers without break lights stopping without reason (not necessarily pulling over to the side either mind you)...cars passing and in your lane coming your direction...when you least expect it....chickens...oh the list goes on. Driving defensively takes on a whole new meaning. I am convinced if one can drive in Tegucigalpa...one can drive anywhere in the world. However, I have been told it is worse in other places. Wow. My favorite saying while I am driving is "when in Rome!". So if you can't beat them...join them!
Now I have mentioned some differences that do not seem so positive in comparision to the states. These are definately inconveniences, but that is what they are, inconveniences. I have a theory on cultures and countries. Non are better than the other...they are just DIFFERENT. That said, let me tell you of some positives to living here.
People. People come first. It is not a task oriented culture, it is a people and relational oriented culture. People greet each other with "picos" kisses on the cheek as greetings. No matter how busy someone is, they will try not to let you know if you stop them and chat. If they call you for a reason, they will first ask you about how you are...how the family is...before asking for what they called for.
FRESH FRUITS and VEGGIES!!! Need I say more??? It's affordable to eat healthy! And the fruits are just amazing!!!!
Wonderful climate! We don't have air conditioning, nor central heating. Our temp inside the house depends on the weather outside. There is something nice and natural about that. Now we technically live in a cloud forest, so it can be quite damp certain times of the year. We don't have seasons other than the rainy season and the dry season. I can wear capris pretty much all year round...but when it's cold, it's cold. But that doesn't last very long.
The mountains and countryside are beautiful!
Medical attention is amazing. Now we might not have state of the art this and that....and there are some reasons to go to the states for medical attention..but for the most part it is a very positive aspect of living here. I actually have the cell phone of our pediatrician and ob/gyn....and I have used it several time. And yes, they actually DO ANSWER!!!!!
Life can be simple. A simple life is nice. A silly example, but an example nonetheless, I have learned to not depend on packets to cook with...things are now from scratch. Including lemonade! Electricity comes and goes at times. Internet comes and goes at times. But we have these things. And life is simple. Life is good.
Well, our children were born here...so I now have even more affection for this place than I did when I came.
So there are just some aspects that have come to mind.....as to how life is like here!!! I will put more pictures up sometime of the beautiful countryside! And also a video of the ride up and down our mountain. In case you ever wondered.